Are you completely head over heels over
a girl and looking for ways to make her fall
for you? Wooing a girl and finding a way to her heart does not involve rocket
science; it is all about adopting a smart and consistent approach. While the
art of wooing comes naturally to some guys, other may need to work on their
skills and stick to some famous tried and tested methods. This 10-point
approach on how to woo a girl can help
you make a start in the right direction:

Do not Rush In
Yes, that girl may be all that you can
think about and it may be torturous to not know if she feels the same way, but
rushing into things can do more harm than good. The first step to a right start
is to warm up to her, and allow her to warm up toward you before you lay bare
your intentions.
Make Time for Her
It is important to let her know that she
is important to you, and there is no better way to do so than by taking time
out from your routine to be by her side. Do not the play the hard to get’ card
unless you are a hundred percent sure that the girl of your dreams is equally
attracted to you.
Use Your Charm
Genuine compliments and small acts of
chivalry never fail to impress a girl, no matter how independent or modern she
is. Certainly, there would be a lot of things you like about your girl, so go
ahead and say them out loud. Making a girl blush over your compliments or
bringing a smile to her face with your acts of chivalry is a clear sign that
you are headed in the direction of making her fall for you.
Occupy Her Thoughts
Though you cannot be by her side at all
times, make sure your thoughts make up for your physical absence. The more a
girl thinks about you, the more likely she is to fall for you. Small gestures
like texting her late into the night or sending a good morning’ text every
morning will help you achieve that end; before you know, she will start
expecting these messages and even miss them on days you do not send one.
Be Her Mr Dependable
In order to win over a girl’s heart, you
need to become her go to’ person in times of need. She should turn to you for
protection or comfort whenever she feels vulnerable or exposed to emotional
turmoil. Invoking a sense of confidence where she does not feel any inhibitions
in sharing her fear or anxieties with you helps in building a strong foundation
for an impending relationship.
Do not get stuck in the Friends’ Zone
There is a very fine line between being
Mr. Dependable and turning into a shoulder to cry on, the latter will certainly
cast a doom on your aspirations to woo
a girl and dump you in the friends’
zone for good. Therefore, it is important to develop a spark, so that she is
not only emotionally bonded but also sexually drawn to you.
Talk Your Heart Out
Believe it or not, women like men who
have an emotional side to them and are not afraid to talk about their
sentiments. However, you do not want to come across as too emotionally
overwhelming or a sissy. Whenever you are together, talk to her about your past
life, dreams and aspirations to give her a glimpse of the real you.
Flirt, Flirt, Flirt
Remember, the ultimate goal is to win
over this girl’s heart and make her fall
for you. There is no better way to grab and hold a girl’s attention than to
tease and flirt with her from time
to time. The aim is to make her have a good time whenever she is with you, so
that she will look forward to meeting you over and over again.
Be Around Her
Make yourself visible. If you go into
hiding or are not seen at places that she frequents; she will not see enough of
you. Be around her, without making your presence too obvious. Share the same interests and you will have a lot to talk about.
Pop the Question
Once you are confident of having struck
the right bond with her, ask her out on a date. Do not hesitate or linger
around for the fear of being turned down, for if you do not ask her out at an
opportune moment you might miss the bus altogether. When she agrees to go out
with you, plan your date carefully and according to her likes and dislikes.
You’d want to bowl her over and fall in love
with you, without going overboard.
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